Distracted Dreamer

Your empty nester role is the Distracted Dreamer. You excel at something many empty nesters struggle with—dreaming. But there's a hitch: taking action on those dreams eludes you.

The challenge for most Distracted Dreamers lies in either lacking the planning skills needed or harboring the belief that their dreams are unattainable, leaving them without a roadmap to follow.

So, could it be that you doubt the feasibility of your dreams?

Let's delve into whether you fit the bill of an empty nester caught in the Distracted Dreamer cycle...

A Distracted Dreamer envisions a brighter future and spends considerable time mulling over what it might entail. Yet, there's a disconnect in their pursuit—they lack consistency. They know a solution exists but are frequently stumped on how to attain it.

They often find themselves wavering on their desires, yearning for change without a clear grasp on what that change should entail. They may find solace in scrolling through inspirational posts or watching motivational videos but fail to translate that inspiration into tangible action.

Chances are, they've dabbled in creating vision boards or curating Pinterest collections, envisioning the material possessions they covet—a beachside retreat, a European voyage, a gleaming new car—believing these acquisitions will bring the fulfillment they seek.

However, without a plan or defined goals, they find themselves caught in a loop of busy work, diverting their focus from discovering their true purpose—the work that truly ignites their passion.

Deep down, they sense that these distractions are keeping them from progressing.

If you find yourself resonating with the profile of a Distracted Dreamer, know that you're not alone. Many individuals in midlife find themselves in this same predicament.

But here's the silver lining: Today marks the beginning of a new chapter. By recognizing what's been holding you back and taking this first step, you've already initiated the momentum needed to make meaningful progress toward your dreams.