Dutiful Debbie

On a scale of 1 to 5, with 1 being the lowest and 5 being the highest, your abundance level is at 4, and are what I call a Dutiful Debbie.

That’s amazing!!! You are so close to operating at the highest level! And maybe you’re a little surprised that you’re not at a 5 so let me explain why...

You operate in a very abundant way and are super generous with your time and your money but I must caution you because there are signs that you are making decisions based on guilt or what you think you should do rather than what you WANT to do so it’s important to check in on that.

If you’re feeling tired and stressed, these are signs that you are allowing people to take advantage of you, and, while it appears you are taking abundant action, you are depleted mentally which means you are pouring from an empty cup.

You see, abundance goes both ways! Abundance is both an inside and an outside job!!! And when you are operating abundantly from both places, it won’t feel like a job!!! You will feel more energetic and peaceful, and your cup will never run dry!

If you are finding your gifts of time and/or money are being done due to feelings of guilt or are resulting in feelings of resentment, this means you’re acting with abundance out of duty, and this is where you need to adjust.

Stop focusing so much on doing what you think is right, which is brain-based logic, and start listening to your heart. Your heart will always lead you to what feels good and what is the best for all parties. And when you do that, abundance won’t feel so forced.